We started out as friends. There were a handful of us who would hang out together, a group of young adults trying to make it in the world, uncertain of anything except for the fact that the world was our oyster. Slowly, those around us faded and we found ourselves spending time alone together, you know, as “friends” often do. Little note cards would be exchanged, at first as simple platonic gestures of good wishes, whether it was for safe travels or good luck on an exam. As our relationship developed, so did the written notes, focusing not exclusively on me or him, but us. Those words on the cards became road signs indicating that we were both headed in the same direction.
Then he went abroad to spend a few months in Korea to reconnect with family and to learn our parents’ native tongue. We were in the beginning of our relationship so I didn’t know what to expect from the distance that would separate us. Words continued to sustain us at that point more than ever before. I still remember the eager anticipation with which I would wait for his letters. Phone conversations were few and far between so those written words became the building blocks to our growing relationship.
So even now, as husband and wife in a family of five, we may not always exchange gifts on special occasions but we always make sure to exchange cards because, at least to me, there is nothing more heartwarming than kind and sweet words carefully etched on a piece of paper that I can go back to and read time and time again, as a reminder of how far we’ve come. I still have all of our exchanged notes, cards and letters in a keepsake box. I know, so sentimental.
Today marks 13 years of our journey together. The day our friendship became a lifelong commitment with the words, “I do.” To celebrate this special occasion, I thought of many different things I could get for him. Material gifts are nice, I for one love getting them, but they just don’t seem personal enough for the occasion. I thought of perhaps a crafty scrapbook of memories, but who am I kidding, I’m no Martha Stewart. I thought of a poem possibly, since he had written me a song with the girls once for Mother’s Day. I love writing but poems are not my thing. Then I thought of Treat, the new greeting cards website by Shutterfly. Instead of going to the drugstore to pick out a generic card, like I usually do, I thought it would be special to create a personalized card specifically for this occasion. For me, written words can express what’s in my heart better than any of my verbal articulations ever could. My gift will be my words, and in them, a piece of my heart.
Outfit Details
On her: Bernardo leather jacket (similar here and here) | BCBGeneration pullover | J Brand jeans (similar) | Vans slip-ons (also here) | F21 scarf (similar here and here)
On him: J.Crew shirt | BR cardigan (similar here and here) | Gap jeans | Nike shoes (similar)
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Awww Cynthia I loved hearing about your love story. You have such a sweet family. Happy Anniversary to you both! May this year be the best for your marriage and for your family! And what an awesome idea for a card! I’m definitely using that idea!
xoxoxoShannon
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Thanks, Shannon! We thank God every day for our blessings.
What a wonderful love and family story – thank you for sharing it with Visible Monday!
Thanks, Patti!
Awwwww what an awesome love story – thanks for sharing!! More power & best wishes on your 13th!!
Rebecca
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Thanks, Rebecca!
Happy anniversary! Love hearing more about your story. Words make such a difference. So glad you still take time to encourage one another.
xo, Amy Ann
The Real Arnolds
Thanks Amy Ann. Yeah, encouraging words are definitely one of my love languages.
Happy Anniversary!
Your card idea is so awesome. Love it!
Thanks, Ashley!
Happy Anniversary Cynthia!! What a sweet love story & this is so beautifully written. Your family is just lovely. Also, this card idea is fantastic I need to go check it out so thanks for sharing & have a great week:)
Marta, xo
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Thanks for your sweet comments, Marta!
What a beautiful family!! Happy Anniversary!
xo, Jane
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Thanks, Jane! Thanks for stopping by.
Congratulations on your 13th years of marriage! Such a great story. Definitely, you came a long way together and you are so blessed with a beautiful family! I didn’t know you have three kids, you look great Cynthia!!! God bless you always! Great pictures, you make a really beautiful couple
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Congratulations to you and your hubby! You have such a wonderful way of words and meaning and it sounds like you have a lovely family as well. THis is what I cherish most in the world as well.
from the link up, jess xx
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You are too cute! Congratulations on 13 years!
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What a sweet and beautiful story! You are so blessed to have a wonderful husband and beautiful family. Happy Anniversary!
Chic on the Cheap
Beautiful story and very inspiring! Stories like these give me hope that there are still great guys out there. Thanks so much for sharing. The pics are gorgeous! Happy Anniversary 🙂
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Oh Cynthia! What a beautiful post! Congratulations and many blessings to your entire beautiful family:-) You daughters are so cute and I am very happy for you for everything in your life. Keep the notes and the good work you are doing. Love your scarf and the outfits!!!
xoxo, Jeannette
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What a sweet love story and Happy 13th Anniversary to you! I love that your relationship developed out of a friendship that grew closer over time! Also love the great photo of your beautiful family!! Your daughters are just adorable.
Gina – On the Daily Express
Aw!!! This is too sweet! Happy anniversary! You both have had a beautiful adventure together and have such a beautiful family!! Best wishes for many more years together!
<3 Shannon
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Oh this post is so precious!! I love how thoughtful you are and wow what a great gift to receive. It’s neat to read a bit about your history and love story. Happy Anniversary, your family is beautiful. God Bless! Rachel xo
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I love this story of how you met! Sounds like an exciting road!
Melanie @ meandmr.com
I love that you guys do this, words can have so much power. I’ve saved all the notes and cards I’ve gotten from my husband too 🙂
Aww! Loved reading your love story! You have a beautiful family! Happy Anniversary!
Jill
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HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!! Thanks for sharing 🙂
Thanks, girl!
Happy Anniversary! Loved reading your love story, thanks for sharing! And what a great idea to make your own card!
What a sweet love story! You have a beautiful family and I love that the foundation of your relationship started with sweet words and friendship. Here’s to many more anniversaries!
Such a beautiful family! I cannot tell you how much I enjoyed reading your post today 🙂
Happy anniversary to you both <3
Love from Vienna,
Mahshid مهشید
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This is such an incredibly sweet post!! My husband and I started our relationship with emails, as he was deployed. I really think it leads you to really get to know someone! I’m thankful we started with letters. 🙂 Great post! And isn’t treat wonderful!?
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I totally agree, Susan. There’s something about writing to each other that makes us less inhibited about expressing what’s in our hearts. Thanks for stopping by Susan!
Happy anniversary! These photos are so cute. I think relationships are great when they start off as friends
Cha Cha The Fashion Genius
His is such an adorable post! I will have to look into Treat for myself. What a great present for your husband. My hubby and I also love to exchange cards and write our feelings down so that we can look back and cherish those moments. What a wonderful gift idea, thanks for sharing! I think you have one great looking family, and congrats on 13 years together!
Also, a big thank you for stopping in and joining Celebrate Southern this week! I hope to see you back next week dear! Xoxo
Thanks J! So glad to hear that you and your husband exchange cards as well. It will be so fun reading thru them in the future!
Great family portrait!
Zhuo
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This is post is the sweetest and your family is precious. I wish I would have saved the letters and notes I have written or received. I have a few, but not many. Happy anniversary and cheers to a lifetime of love, happiness and notes writing!! 🙂
Great family pictures! Love the pumpkin pics!
Marie @ In Our Happy Place
Treat sounds like a very useful company to know! Your family are so adorable. Happy Anniversary!
This is such a sweet story and it gives me hope, you have beautiful family.
xo
PinkSole
You two are such a cute couple and what a beautiful family you have! I didn’t realize you were the mother of THREE! 🙂 Love that plaid scarf, it really pops in the photos… and, I really need to get a pair of Vans, not sure why I don’t have a pair yet?!
How fun! Happy Anniversary!
Happy Anniversary!!
What a sweet post! Happy Anniversary and to many more!!
Alice
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